You’ve done the study, you’ve got the
degree, you may even have some great looking experience under your belt. So why
don’t you have the job?
Start from your inner circle and work your way out
Start by building on your existing connections.
Strengthening the relationships you already have is a comfortable starting
point if you are new to networking.
Connect with the extroverts
There is always that one person in our circle of
contacts who seem to know everyone. Make a point of building your relationship
with them. They are the networking enablers that connect the dots between you
and that important opportunity.
Seek out those you wish to meet
Pursue interests, activities and events that are
likely to attract the people you would like to meet. Reach out to someone who
has your dream job and ask them how they got there. Put your face and key
elements out there on forums and sites where career progression or connecting
is important (like ours!).
Ask questions
Whenever you meet someone new, engage with them and
ask lots of questions. Find out what they do, what their interests are and who
they know. It doesn’t need to be the Spanish Inquisition – just express an
interest in their life. You may discover a mutual passion or an interesting
contact they can put you in touch with.
Be sincere
Take the time to build up your relationship with
new contacts. Trust and meaningful connections only come with time and ongoing
interaction. When you read an interesting article that you think they might
like, send them an email. If you have an upcoming function they’d be interested
in, invite them along. Is there someone you know that they should meet? Set it
up. Small gestures and favours will add up. Networking is founded on mutually
beneficial relationships: you have to give to receive.
Be considerate
Be flexible and work around their schedule. Arrange
to buy them coffee near their office. Research them and tailor your
conversation accordingly. Send them a thank you note telling them how they’ve
helped you. Ask permission to use their name if they reach out to any contacts
they may have mentioned. Respecting and appreciating that they are taking time
out of their busy professional lives will leave a positive impression for any
future contact.
Networking will go a long way in any field or
career. It isn’t easy at first and you’ll probably feel uncertain or shy, but
do it regularly and you will enjoy yourself and become a social pro!
Have you ever tried any different techniques that have worked? Or maybe found some tricky barriers? Let us know!
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